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Self Sabotage, grief, and honesty.
A couple of days ago a beautiful human being lost his life to cancer. He was the absolute kindest person you could ever meet, a truly gentle
Kiri Self
Aug 16, 20225 min read


I’m done. I’m going to love myself and date my friends.
I know. It sounds odd and a quite a lot wanky. But I mean it. I am finally going to learn to love myself. And I’m going to date my friends.
Kiri Self
Apr 2, 20226 min read


Anxious attachment - what is it and why does it affect me?
Scrolling through my Instagram this morning, and up popped something that really resonated with me. These are from...
Kiri Self
Feb 10, 20222 min read


Assault in the City. S1 E1.
This post has been on my mind for months. It’s probably one of the most difficult that I will write. But one of the most important - it...
Kiri Self
Jan 25, 20223 min read


It’s been a better day
I’ve had a much better day today. I spoke to my friend yesterday evening, and we sorted everything out. He was really sorry that he’d...
Kiri Self
Jan 23, 20221 min read


What goes up must come down right? Stupid law of physics.
I’m dithering about posting this. But if you’re reading then I guess I bit the bullet and hit that button. After a brilliant day...
Kiri Self
Jan 22, 20222 min read


Old man
5am and I’m awake, thoughts running around my head like they are a party of five years olds who’ve just discovered an unattended bowl of swe
Kiri Self
Jan 12, 20222 min read


Dreams, Lies, and Fantasies
I had a strange dream the other day. It was about a guy that kissed me a very long time ago.
Kiri Self
Dec 6, 20214 min read


Chosen Family
Now first up I don’t want to make things worse with my genetic family than they already are.
Kiri Self
Nov 14, 20216 min read


This is me. Full Disclosure.
I don’t want to hide my shitty behaviour. I value so much the support of my school peers and my friends.
Kiri Self
Oct 19, 20216 min read


Slut shaming, betrayal, and confusion.
So - slut shaming. Making women feel like shit since the year dot.
Kiri Self
Oct 17, 20213 min read


I stopped being a pisshead.
I’m sober now, and I really like it. Yes I still drink occasionally and I’m fine with that.
Kiri Self
Oct 11, 20218 min read


Public, Private, somewhere in between?
Writing things down in the way that I’ve been doing, and airing my dirty laundry in public, seems to cause some strong reactions in people.
Kiri Self
Oct 3, 20213 min read
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