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Kiri Self

Self Sabotage, grief, and honesty.

A couple of days ago a beautiful human being lost his life to cancer. He was the absolute kindest person you could ever meet, a truly gentle

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I’m done. I’m going to love myself and date my friends.

I know. It sounds odd and a quite a lot wanky. But I mean it. I am finally going to learn to love myself. And I’m going to date my friends.

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Anxious attachment - what is it and why does it affect me?

Scrolling through my Instagram this morning, and up popped something that really resonated with me. These are from...

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I can’t remember

I can’t remember my teenage bedroom. I can’t remember my childhood bedroom. My memories are like floating bits of dreams, haphazard and...

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What goes up must come down right? Stupid law of physics.

I’m dithering about posting this. But if you’re reading then I guess I bit the bullet and hit that button. After a brilliant day...

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It’s been a while

I want the sea to wash away the pain. I wrote a poem when I was a teenager. The only thing I’ve ever written like it. But the words have s

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You violated me you motherf*cker.

I trusted you. You were my friend. I told you things I’ve never told anyone else. And then you abandoned me and lied to me.

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This is me. Full Disclosure.

I don’t want to hide my shitty behaviour. I value so much the support of my school peers and my friends.

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Slut shaming, betrayal, and confusion.

So - slut shaming. Making women feel like shit since the year dot.

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